Boy, 8, died WEEKS after ‘lazy eye’ was diagnosed as terminal brain tumour

AN eight-year-old boy died three months after finding out his “lazy eye” turned out to be a sign of a terminal brain tumour.

Tom Gray had shown no other symptoms to make his parents Simon and Carly think anything was wrong.

But an MRI scan just four days before his eighth birthday confirmed the youngster, from Victoria, Australia, had inoperable brain cancer.

He passed away 14 weeks later in 2016.

Dad Simon said aside from his lazy eye and failing vision, they had no reason to believe their son had cancer.

He told MailOnline: “There were no other symptoms. He was always doing something – a very active body and active mind.

We made the choice not to tell him. We wanted him to try to enjoy everything we threw up at him without the thought in his head that he was going to die
Simon GrayTom’s Dad
“The only other thing, and we thought about this later on, was that his movement wasn’t as crisp as what it used to be.”

Mum Carly told Nine News: “He had the MRI and we got the phone call that day to say you’ve got an appointment with the oncologist tomorrow.

We knew things couldn’t be good. But you still don’t anticipate that you’re going to be told there’s really nothing they can do.”

His parents decided not to tell Tom he had Diffuse Intrinsic Pontine Glioma (DIPG) following the devastating diagnosis.

Simon told the broadcaster: “We made the choice not to tell him. We wanted him to try to enjoy everything we threw up at him without the thought in his head that he was going to die.”

In his final days, he managed to play a couple of games of football and was made captain of his friend’s boat for a day.

They are now helping raise awareness about childhood brain cancer with a unique art exhibition at Kyneton Hospital, with portraits of Tom from birth to death adorning the corridors.

The collection by artist Daniel Butterworth includes one striking painting of Tom lying peacefully in his casket.

Carly admitted she finds the image difficult to look at.

Fighting back tears, she said: “It still doesn’t sit comfortably with me. I look at it and feel physically ill.

“It’s not something I’m comfortable with at all, but I figure if it tugs at someone’s heart-strings, if it makes people a little more aware, if it spreads the word about the statistics of paediatric brain cancer, then there’s something good that can come from it.”

All funds raised from the exhibition will go towards Cure Brain Cancer Foundation’s mission to improve five-year brain cancer survival to 50 per cent by 2023.